Are You a Boyfriend or Husband?
We realize that not everyone reading this page will be a boyfriend. Whoever you are, our goal at PCS is to come along side you and help meet your need.
If you are a husband or boyfriend, involved in an unplanned pregnancy, please take the time to read this. Your child's life could depend on it. That's right, I said, "your child." by the time a woman knows for sure that she is pregnant, there is already a small, but well-developed baby with hands, feet and a beating heart inside her womb. A baby that you helped to make and probably looks like you.
You are Already on the Right Track
So, now you're probably faced with some of the most difficult decisions you've ever had to make. Take heart, if you're reading this web page, you are already on the right track!
Lack of Support
The truth is that many young women that find themselves pregnant before they are ready, are often abandoned by the very same boyfriend that said he loved her. Sadly enough, women that have abortions often do so because of the lack of support they received from boyfriends, husbands and family.
If you are thinking that abortion is the easy answer to your "problem", make no mistake about it, there is nothing "easy" about abortion. Abortionwill end the life of your child and can cause physical and emotional injury to your girlfriend/wife.
Men have been created to protect and provide for their children. If you take an active part in ending the life, of your child, (a child that cannot speak for itself), the guilt of knowing you have failed to protect and provide can be overwhelming. It is a secret that you will carry with you forever.
Get Informed
You may have made some poor choices that got you to this difficult situation that you are facing, but it is not too late to do the right thing.
Ther is hope and you do have options.
If you were "man enough" to have sex with your girlfriend, then you should be man enough to take responsibility for your actions.
Take your girlfriend by the hand and come into our office for some counseling. Get informed about your options. We even have men counselors available. We are here to help you, but first you have to come in. Your baby's life is depending on it.
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